Lesson learnt
In the name of Allah the Most Gracious the Most Merciful
For the past week, there are SO many things that happened that I think I should write it today in order to arrange and digest my thoughts. Of course it's just the random me that trying to learn from my experiences hehe.
1. The traits that you should have as a leader. You know you don't have to be an extrovert to be a good one. But, you just need to try your best to listen to your colleagues, try to understand their struggles and opinions. Try to have some empathy and be realistic in planning. Because the reality is you need to lead the team. The leader title in you carries so much responsibility. Nothing can work out without someone that we call a leader.
2. Control your expectations. I think this is one of the biggest weakness that I have. They said if you do not have expectations, you can never be disappointed. When I experienced the heartbreak that comes from it, I never thought it will be THAT hard. Maybe it's plainly because I never experience such thing in life. But I found that this is easier to say than done.
When that thing happened, people around me try their best to comfort me and say "It is not your fault." And that makes me think, then whose? I need to own up and be responsible for my own life, to the decisions that I made. At least before I expect others to do the same. It is not that I am beating myself, I just try to sort out the reality.
3. And I also learnt about acceptance. Sometimes even when you already trying your best to readjust that expectations in you, some things are just bound to be accepted. I really need to work my ass off towards it. When life changes their course than what I anticipated it to go, it will guide you to realize ahh that's how life works. And sometimes, you really don't have any control over it. Especially when it comes to His destiny i.e future, love, life and death. Rather than feeling frustrated, maybe we should just look beautiful things that come with it. And maybe, this is when the concept or Redha comes in. Putting the things that burden you to Him, let it go in His way.
4. STOP MAKING AN ASSUMPTIONS. I don't want to write long about this. But it is just hey, sometimes we think what we think is the truth, but it is not. Just don't waste your time and live up to it. It will only cause unnecessary pressure on you. Go and ask the fact. At least, I wouldn't waste my whole day crying without reasons?? Okay actually there is a reason to be sad, but naaah come on you get the point, right?
Whatever it is, I pray that everything will be fine for you, me and us. I once read that if you can learn from the worst time of your life, you'll be ready to enter the best one. Just look on things that you can improve yourself with.
"We never know when or how we’ll receive our lessons, but if we get out there and lean into every opportunity we can be certain not to miss them."
Whatever it is, lesson learnt.
7/12/2020
p/s: It's not easy though???? Hahaha but regardless, I hope things will get better. It will, insyaAllah.
p/s p/s: Sorry for all those loser rants, just keep it up with me please.
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